Connecting Family Online
Wednesday, December 31st, 2008I’ve just registered BostianFamily.org – a website designed to help link together my mother’s side of the family. Now, it helps that this part of my family holds a reunion every year (at which I have been absent for the past 7) and that in general, they’re all pretty close-knit. But it is quite difficult to know what any family member is up to at any given time, without the time-consuming process of emails and calls. This statement surely points out my laziness, but also the difficulty in maintaining a large circle of contacts. In theory this website should help with that.
I’m a bit stymied as to what to put on the website, as my web design skills are quite sub-par. But a blog seems like a good idea (helpful for planning reunions and such) and email too. There’s some open source software designed for genealogy that I might install. I would love to hear any additional suggestions that you might have.
I wish Facebook had a software package you could install on your own website. I think these types of social networking sites offer ideal ways to keep people in touch with each other. I would love it if all my relatives had Facebook profiles. We could all be friends and keep track of what others are up to. But as I’ve expressed before, Facebook offers no easy way to make your profile look different to different users. So my family has access to information that might offend some of them. Take what you can get, I suppose.
This website might come of nothing, as I will be the one maintaining it, rather than driving new content. If planners of the family reunion have no interest in using these types of online tools, then it will surely fail. But as my cousins from my generation get older, we increasingly look to the internet to provide us ways to connect. Maybe this can be one additional way to keep an ever-spreading family together.